Top-Tipps fürs Bewerbungsverfahren „Sind Sie eher schnell oder eher gründlich?“
Düsseldorf · Ein Personalberater aus Düsseldorf erklärt, was Bewerber in einem Vorstellungsgespräch gefragt werden und was sie niemals antworten sollten.

Thomas Lüdeke ist Personal- und Unternehmensberater in Düsseldorf. Er erlebte schon einige herausfordernde und auch kuriose Gespräche.
Foto: Anne Orthen (orth)Als Personal- und Unternehmensberater hat Thomas Lüdeke schon viele Gespräche in seinem Leben erlebt. Aufgrund seiner langjährigen Erfahrung weiß er sehr genau, worauf es im Bewerbungsverfahren ankommt.
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