Frau Töbelmann, inwiefern haben die drei Jahre Corona die Jugendlichen verändert?
Im Gespräch mit Jugendreferentin Katja Töbelmann „Die Kinder- und Jugendarbeit ist ein Prozess“
Interview | Wermelskirchen · Wermelskirchens Jugendreferentin Katja Töbelmann blickt nach drei Jahren Corona-Pandemie zurück und wirft auch einen Blick nach vorne.

Katja Töbelmann ist Jugendreferentin bei der Stadt Wermelskirchen und in der Jugendgerichtshilfe tätig.
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